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Pendidikan Cinta


Hari Jumaat hari yang penuh barakah. Tambah-tambah lagi pada 17 Ramadhan hari ini.

"My sweetheart, if you want to build a family, a faithful one, you can never build it on what Allah has stated as wrong and proven false by the way Rasulullah p.b.u.h has taught us. A happy and blessed family comes from Allah, and you don't even have anything to defend it as blessed if the first step you make is by stepping into what He has prohibited."

"You can't have a happy family if Allah doesn't help you so, and you must know in every family that stands until their dying day, they have Allah on their side. You can't expect Him to help you if you did the wrong step from the very beginning."

Excerpt dari "Nasihat Ibu Tentang Cinta".

Subhanallah. Seolah-olah satu perkhabaran...
Dah lama aku tak dengar nasihat sebegini. I have heard about it before this; I couldn't recall where or by whom. But the statement rings inside me all these years. Tiada rahmat dari sesuatu yang dimulai dengan sesuatu yang tidak baik. Jika asasnya sudah tidak baik, bagaimana keseluruhannya akan menjadi baik.

"It's not me who want you to make a decision like this, but Allah tells you so."

Yes, I do believe that.

KepadaNYA aku lebih bersyukur kerana membebaskan aku dari perkara sebegini. Sungguh seperti kata penulis, kini hidup terasa lebih tenang. Bukanlah bermaksud kisah dahulu kisah yang gelap, tidak. Dan bukan juga sekadar pemanis rasa untuk menutup kekecewaan, juga tidak. Nevermind, Allah knows.

This is from a novel: "Cinta hanya untuk Yang Khaliq. Selainnya hanya mainan perasaan."

Kata seorang ustazah dalam Seminar Puteriku Sayang di UNIMAS: "Tidak ada istilah cinta antara lelaki dan perempuan dalam Islam... Kalau bercinta juga, jangan jadikan cinta itu lagha, melalaikan. Kalau melalaikan, wajarlah dihentikan."

Aku hanya manusia di tengah-tengah keriuhan dunia…

Tapi Allah itu Maha Bijaksana dan Maha Pemurah.
Ya Allah, tunjukilah kami jalan yang Engkau redhai.
Ya Allah, permudahkanlah kami menjalankan perintahMU.



CiziWejes said…
So true...kadang2 lebih baik tidak bercinta, menyelamatkan kita dari sifat amarah, cemburu dan syak wasangka.
'Aini said…
btol tu kak...
CiziWejes said…
Tapi tu lah...makin dibilang jangan, yang tu lah yang kita terkam nak buat. Huu..
'Aini said…
hehehe.. mmg selalunya mcm tu lah :D

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